I am going to be moving out of the apartment that I have shared with my girlfriend for the last year, because things really aren’t working for me. I thought that she was the one, but it seems that I was mistaken about things. There is still an off chance that we could work it out, but I don’t think she really wants things to be better. So, I have to start looking for stockbridge ga apartments for rent as I will need to find a new place to live rather quickly and I do not really want to delay in the process of moving out to a new place on my own.
I really think that it will be better if I move out on my own, even if we do somehow manage to salvage our relationship. We probably decided to move into together too soon, and in retrospect, I can see that kind of set us up for failure. But things were a lot better back then, and so I could not have imagined just how bad they would get. Right now, I feel like I am at my wit’s end with all of the stress that she is causing me.
She seems to have absolutely no regard for my emotions, and yet if I try to call her out on the way that she treats me, she always manages to turn things around and act like I am doing the very things that I am accusing her of. Of course, I am not trying to place blame or anything, I just want to have my feelings acknowledged, and get her to realize that I am not happy with the way that she has been treating me. But no matter how I try to bring it up, it seems I am always the bad guy.
My wife and I got tired of the winter commutes in our home along the northern eastern seaboard. The weather could get downright nasty. We have spent nights at work and have been stuck at home unable to get to work. I made a joke that the next time we get stuck at home or at work it is going to be because of a hurricane and not a snowstorm. It was then that my wife shared how much she did want to start looking for apartments in Tampa FL. She went to school there and we vacationed there. We were operating under the misleading information that we would not like the months of June, July and August in Florida. We leased a place for a year to find out.
We had a lot of vacation time, and we both mostly telecommuted much of the time now anyway. Our company had a big office in the Tampa area, so relocating was actually going to be easier than we thought. Our work is for corporate and not the northern office anyway. We met at work, fell in love and got married. Last year we made it through the hot months in Florida and found out we like it. I’m telling you it is much easier to go inside in the air conditioning and have it hot outside than to be inside with the furnace running while it is frigid outside. This gets to be even more true as each year your bones get older.
We did our searching and found luxury apartments in Tampa FL that were perfect for us. There is a gym, luxurious swimming pool and there is fishing and bird watching at Galt Lake. I really like to fish, and my wife has been into birding since she was a child. My joke about only being stuck if it is a hurricane and not a snowstorm got us to move to where it stays warm enough to go outside year round without a parka. We are both much happier for making the move. The luxury apartment in Tampa makes it all that much nicer.